(This post was written yesterday evening.)
Earlier this afternoon, I found myself in an interesting situation. (Warning: bodily functions ahead!) I was in the middle of assisting my daughter off of the potty.
And there it was.
I’ll spare you the details, but it was in places where it should not have been.
Let’s face it. When you are a mom, things like this are second nature. You see poop and you don’t even bat an eye.
And most days that would be me. But not today.
Oh today I am tired from lack of sleep and from tending sick kids. To be honest, I am worn out from worry.
But I’m still doing this crazy thing called life, rushing around trying to get things done.
And a voice in my head says something like, “This is all very well and good, but are you forgetting that one thing…?”.
Ah yes the story.
Mary and Martha
This story is becoming more and more relatable as the day goes on.
How well I know it. Or thought I knew it. In reality I don’t think I know it as well as I thought I did.
You’re probably familiar with the story of Mary and Martha, from Luke 10:38-41.
They were two sisters who were friends with Jesus. Here are their stories, based on what I’ve studied from scripture.
Sister #1 is running about like a chicken with her head cut off. Barking orders. Even at…Jesus?
But wait. She’s all on her own, a one-woman show. Where is her help?
I always used to wonder about that. I don’t think it’s by accident either that the story is told from Martha’s perspective. God knows us well.
Martha is just trying to be a good hostess, right? Baste the roast, set the table, fluff the pillows.
Mary isn’t doing anything at all. Except that she is. She’s doing everything that she needs to do. All that her heart and spirit needs is being met at this moment spent at Jesus’s feet.
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed.” (vs. 41-42a)
Worried and upset. About many things.
A page in the diary of my life. A phrase most relatable in this storm cloud of a day, in this season.
I’m thinking about so many things. My mind and my physical body are being pulled in so many directions. My very soul is weary. I am running on E but I keep going somehow.
But look at what Jesus says next after that bit about Martha’s troubles.
“Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” (v. 42b)
Two wonderfully positive things going on here in verse 42.
- She chose what was better.
- It will not be taken away.
Mary is actually a very quiet person in scripture. She is only recorded as speaking once, in John 11:32, before Jesus raises her brother Lazerus from the dead.
But this isn’t a matter of personality… quiet Mary vs. bossy Martha. Jesus isn’t saying here, “Hey Mary is better because of her temperament”.
It was her actions and the state of her heart alone. Martha does exhibit strong faith when she speaks with Jesus in the same chapter I mentioned above (see John 11:21-27).
What I think Jesus really meant here is that physical needs have their place. There is no sin in being a kind hostess. It’s easy to be blindsided by life. But the inner, rather than the outward person is more important.
Sitting at Jesus’s Feet
Jesus keeps us going! He never meant for us to walk alone. To mother alone. To shoulder our problems alone.
No. He wishes for us to come away with Him. To dwell in the quiet for a little while so the crazy is less crazy.
Because when we take the time, it makes all the difference.
Did I feel rushed and pulled about today? I did. But did I carve out time to spend with Him? I failed to. I was blinded by my to-do list.
But guess what? He’s still faithful. He still comes alongside me, encouraging my heart.
And what was playing on my Pandora today? I kept skipping through songs. Nothing was sounding good. “It’s Gonna Be Alright”, by Sara Groves comes on.
I couldn’t help but smile. It’s one of my favorite songs and talks about “not getting any sleep”. It felt like Jesus was singing it right to my heart.
He is good.